| My backyard irises that grow next to the rock wall |
Whether you're laying a stone path, planting herbs, or tackling lawn care, this blog is your guide to a thriving outdoor space. I offer seasonal tips for pest control, garden design, and curb appeal plus honest product reviews to help you make smart, beautiful choices for your yard.
Thursday, July 30, 2015
Caring For Damaged Irises
Keeping Irises Insect Free with Neem Oil
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| Keeping my irises healthy with neem oil concentrate |
Tuesday, July 28, 2015
What NOT to Do When Cutting Back Bearded Irises
A Gardener’s Cautionary Tale
Every gardener has a story that becomes a lesson sometimes a gentle reminder, sometimes a full‑blown “don’t ever do this” warning. Today’s post is the latter. Consider this your friendly, slightly satirical guide to what NOT to do when trimming bearded irises, told from the perspective of someone who grows hundreds of them and has lived through the consequences.
If you’ve ever trusted a well‑meaning helper in the garden… this one’s for you.
🌱 The Setup: A Simple Task… or So I Thought
I needed to treat my irises for borers using concentrated spearmint oil. To help the treatment reach the rhizome, the leaves must be cut back neatly about three inches tall, shaped like a fan, using sterilized garden scissors.
I sterilized two pairs of scissors. I demonstrated the proper cut. I explained why it mattered. My husband nodded. He understood. Or so I believed.
I headed to the front garden to trim 300 irises. He headed to the back to trim 287.
🚫 What NOT to Do: The Lawn Mower Edition
Ten minutes later, he announced that cutting iris leaves was “ridiculous” and he was going to mow the lawn instead. Fine. Great. Grass needs mowing.
A few minutes later, he approached me with the phrase no gardener wants to hear:
“I cut them too short.”
Too short… what?
“The irises.”
Reader, he did not mean “too short with scissors.” He meant too short with the mulching lawn mower.
💀 The Damage: When Irises Meet a Mulching Mower
If the rhizome is cut, the plant is damaged. If the leaves are shredded, the plant is stressed. If the entire plant is run over by a mulching mower… well… you can kiss a couple hundred blooms goodbye.
I followed him to the backyard. My Batik irises both sides of the garden path — were scalped. Not trimmed. Not tidied. Scalped.
I suspect I lost hundreds of flowers that year.
🌿 DO: Proper Iris Leaf Trimming
- Use sterilized garden scissors.
- Cut leaves to about three inches.
- Shape them like a fan.
- Trim only after blooming or when treating pests.
- Keep cuts clean to prevent borer entry.
🚫 DON’T: The Fast, Furious, and Fatal Methods
- Do NOT use a lawn mower.
- Do NOT use a weed trimmer.
- Do NOT “buzz cut” irises to the ground.
- Do NOT cut into the rhizome — ever.
- Do NOT assume a helper understands without supervision.
😂 A Little Humor Helps the Healing
My husband is usually a wonderful help in the garden. But on this day, he made a choice a bold, baffling choice to mow the irises as if they were a patch of unruly turf.
He apologized. He meant well. He still doesn’t fully grasp the horticultural crime scene he created.
🌸 Want to Learn Proper Iris Care?
You can read my full guide to dividing and transplanting bearded irises here.
Disclaimer
Disclaimer: All photos in this article were taken in my own gardens. My gardening knowledge comes from decades of hands‑on experience, beginning in childhood when I learned to garden by helping my father in our family gardens. Those early lessons shaped my lifelong love of plants. I later deepened my knowledge while tending the gardens of a Master Gardener and Master Naturalist. This article reflects my personal experience growing and caring for hundreds of bearded irises in Missouri’s climate.
Saturday, July 25, 2015
Gardening Today: Removing Dead Branches from Trees
I have been weeding the garden beds and my husband removed the dead branches from the Mimosa tree and also trimmed the branches that are too close to the windows on the side of the house. Then my husband pruned back the poison ivy that was growing over the wall. I cannot touch it but for some reason, he can pull it out with his hands and it does not bother him.
We worked together today on manicuring the trees and also treated the flowers, shrubs, and around the trees with a soap wash to get rid of the aphids, spider mites, and beetles
Learn more about mimosa trees by reading my blog post here. Know that our mimosa tree is no longer flowering so it is safe to trim back the branches to encourage growth and many blooms next year.
Happy summer gardening everyone. If you are out in the garden be sure to have some water close by. Keeping your body hydrated is the best way to prevent heat stroke.
Learn more about pruning your flowering trees by viewing this video.
Thursday, July 23, 2015
Dandelions: Easy to Grow and Tastes Good Too
Friday, July 17, 2015
Maintaining Backyard Wildlife Habitat
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| Raccoon by serviceberry trees |
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| Black butterfly and mimosa flower |
| Butterfly garden |
| Cat relaxing after visiting the catnip garden |
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| Raccoon hiding in the grass garden |
Since we had lost many plants due to our extremely hot summers we decided to grow only native plants and other fruit bearing plants. Also instead of growing the forage plants away from the house we grew them closer. By doing this we were able to hydrate them with soaking hoses in the early morning on our assigned watering days. We also invested in water retention mulch by Scotts. The cost of this mulch is higher than others but it is well worth it because it does help you to save water.
Tuesday, July 7, 2015
Vinegar Weed Killer Tips and Warnings
| Keep your garden weed free with vinegar. Photo of my lily and Iris garden |
Why use vinegar and dawn ultra dish soap and not roundup?
How often do you have to apply the vinegar weed killer?
Can I use it in my
flowerbeds or around trees?
Here are some other products that I have used for controlling weeds in flower beds' learn more here
Wednesday, July 1, 2015
Weeds Growing in-between Stepping Stones
| Stepping stone with pea gravel and edge stone |
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| Dry set flagstone walkway with pea gravel |
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| Pea gravel path with stepping stones |
| Cement capstone garden path |







